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"Log Kya Kahenge?" — The Psychological Weight of Growing Up to Please Everyone But Yourself
Introduction If you grew up in an Indian household, you know the phrase before you even finish reading it. "Log kya kahenge?" What will people say? It arrives early and stays long woven into decisions about what to study, who to marry, what career to choose, how to dress, what to say in family gatherings, and crucially, what not to say. It is rarely delivered with malice. Most of the time, it comes from genuine love from parents and grandparents who learned, in their own chil
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"I Am Fine" -- And Other Things We Tell Ourselves When We Actually Need Therapy
You are keeping it together. Getting through the days. Showing up to work, to your family, to your responsibilities. Nobody around you is particularly worried. And yet. There is something underneath the surface that does not quite resolve. A low-level hum of stress that never fully switches off. A sense that you are going through the motions rather than actually living. A tiredness that rest does not seem to touch. A version of yourself that you used to be, that feels further
theunpluggedself
Jun 1810 min read
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