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"Log Kya Kahenge?" — The Psychological Weight of Growing Up to Please Everyone But Yourself
Introduction If you grew up in an Indian household, you know the phrase before you even finish reading it. "Log kya kahenge?" What will people say? It arrives early and stays long woven into decisions about what to study, who to marry, what career to choose, how to dress, what to say in family gatherings, and crucially, what not to say. It is rarely delivered with malice. Most of the time, it comes from genuine love from parents and grandparents who learned, in their own chil
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